When a girl gets a new message on Hinge, Bumble, or whatever app she's using, she doesn't see your full message. She sees a preview—just the first few characters that pop up in her notification or message list...
"You don’t seduce a beautiful woman by making her feel beautiful—you seduce her by making her feel unique." A mentor told me that; at the time, I didn’t fully get it. But looking back, it was exactly what I needed to hear.
There are times when even high-quality women make mistakes and behave disrespectfully. If and when that happens to you—and let’s be clear, even if you did absolutely nothing to deserve it—how you handle the situation will determine the future of your relationship. Because when a woman disrespects you, there are…
Today we're diving into a game-changer when it comes to attracting women: TENSION. Tension is the "secret sauce" that leaves her wanting more...
If you knew exactly what to say to get a woman laughing or excited to talk to you, how much easier would your life be? Whether meeting a girl for the first time or talking to your long-term girlfriend, you’d always come off polished, charismatic, and attractive. Moreover, the days…
Love it or hate it, let’s just accept it: attracting women is a game. Thankfully, once you know the rules, you’ll know how to get the next hot woman you meet. Even more important than knowing how the game is played, you must understand how the game is WON. Rule…
That’s because trying to set up women the “traditional” way is like trying to write a term paper on typewriter. It’s just stupid, a waste of time, and—ultimately—very ineffective. Instead, embrace technology and use the smartphone to your advantage. Texting women in the “modern era” means understanding how to use…
In most of my products and articles, I rarely go into much depth about how to kiss a girl. In my opinion, sexual escalation (like kissing) is more of an outgrowth of sexual tension. In The 4 Elements of Game I define kissing as a “release” behavior—something that releases the…
As the name implies, self-reference means you point out something you did or are going to do. I’ll demonstrate exactly what I’m talking about in a moment, but first I want to explain why this strategy is so effective. Most of the time when guys chat with women, they try…
If we were to meet up, have a drink together, and then go meet women, it would only take us seeing you do one approach to figure out if you’re good with women or not. It wouldn’t necessarily matter if you “got” the girl. No. Over all the years, we’ve…