"You don’t seduce a beautiful woman by making her feel beautiful—you seduce her by making her feel unique." A mentor told me that; at the time, I didn’t fully get it. But looking back, it was exactly what I needed to hear.
“Change her mood, not her mind.” I heard that from the smartest guy I knew when it came to women one night at a dive bar in the East Village, condensing years of dating wisdom into six simple words. I nodded like I understood, but truth is, I didn’t have…
Let me break this down for you because most guys are handling tension all wrong… When a woman pulls back or goes cold, guys panic. Their gut instinct is to rush in and fix it, to get that closure, to smooth things over. They THINK they’re being proactive but all…
Some tough love from a guy who's been coaching guys for half a decade. The points may be harsh, but no one got better at anything with soft criticism. Enjoy (with a tough skin)...
In most of my products and articles, I rarely go into much depth about how to kiss a girl. In my opinion, sexual escalation (like kissing) is more of an outgrowth of sexual tension. In The 4 Elements of Game I define kissing as a “release” behavior—something that releases the…
Today I want to talk about texting. What I have to say about texting will do more than just rock your thumbs…it will change your life. But to discuss something of such magnitude, I first need to explain my stance on kino… ...or lack thereof.
I could almost see his spirit laid across the floor, shattered, crunching underneath the bustle of a Lower East Side wine bar. I stood off in the corner, not unlike a trainer during a 12-round boxing match. I was ready to yell some motivational tidbits in his ear, or do…
Last year I wrote the 10 Best Texts to Send Girls…OF ALL TIME. Now, time hasn’t ended and those 10 texts are still totally relevant and effective. But since these posts are fun to put together, and I think they teach good fundamentals for texting and communicating with women, I…
I remember exactly where I stood when I heard it. I was in 7th grade. I was walking through the hallway of the science wing and passing by a group of older kids, cooler kids. These were the “popular” kids. As I approached the huddled mass, I caught a snip-it…
As the name implies, self-reference means you point out something you did or are going to do. I’ll demonstrate exactly what I’m talking about in a moment, but first I want to explain why this strategy is so effective. Most of the time when guys chat with women, they try…